My grandmother was the center of our family.
Birthdays, holidays, Broncos games — if the family was together, chances were we were at her house. She cooked. She baked. She sang to us in German on Sunday mornings while we helped her clean the house. And no matter how old you were, she always seemed to find a way to slip you a little cash on your way out the door.
I knew her laugh. Her German accent. All the things that made her my grandmother.
I knew exactly who she was to me.
What I was only beginning to discover was who she was beyond that.
A young woman growing up in Germany during the war. A wife. A mother. A woman with experiences, choices, struggles, opinions, and stories that had nothing to do with being my grandmother.
I had just started asking those questions when she died.
I couldn't ask my grandmother the questions I still had. And that changed something in me.
I became more curious about the people in my life — not just who they are to me, but who they are beyond that. The experiences that shaped them. The choices they made. The stories I had never thought to ask about.
And I began to wonder how many of us do the same thing. We love people deeply. We spend years beside them. We know their habits, their personalities, the roles they play in our lives. But we don't always stay curious about the person underneath all of that.
Apple Tree Origins grew from that realization — and from a desire to encourage that curiosity while we still have the chance to follow it.